I am a 38 year old female who is dating a 19 year old guy.
I constantly analyze myself and worry that I am going to lose him.
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He's an adult - let him make his decisions (discuss at length the pros/cons if you feel it must be discussed) - but if he wants you, and you want him - why deny each other! Was never going to last forever, but I would not want to have missed that part of my life for all the amatuer fumblings with girls my own age back then! the pics on my profile i was 28,the woman that took the pic was my 48 yr old g/f....let me tell you...dating older is alot easier than younger.....usually an older woman or man has stability..you dont have to deal with alot of experience was great dated for 2 yrs....still friends to this day just came back from keys snorkeling with her,shes 52 im 32...when its us i dont think about the age.....i think about how she makes me we have tossed it around and as tragic as it is she is 20yrs older so its not a reality,so we just enjoy each others company as much as we can as long as we can I've dated guys that age.
I was several years older than 19, but, I don't regret or think I lost anything in the period of our time together. We don't look physically or energetically like there's an age gap. I don't want to be a casuality in his love life since he is so young It was the same for us at the time.
Dating an older woman is quite the rage these days.
As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age. Pay no attention to the ol’ elbow-jabbing, wink-wink idea that cougars* are “more likely to put out and pay for everything.” Meh, that may be a reason a naïve man attempts to score with an older lady, but it’s hardly the reason a smart man enters a relationship with one.
I wouldn't think much of a couple aging 36 and 46, but a 21-year old (especially a guy... Regardless of even his opinion, I would not take his youth and time to grow away from him... I thought guys in their 20's were "immature" according to women ( I guess it''s different when SEX is involved) Most of those situations don't last cause when that 21year old sees a nice 18-22 year old walks by (especially if he's in college) it's curtains for the that older woman!
he needs to embrace his youth, its trials and tribulations; not to mention college and career choices... People need to experience as much of the menu life has to offer before they know what their favorite meal is... NO way I would date a 21 year old no matter how mature she "claims" to be. I put up with their relationship...could have so chosen someone more mature...