This is a declaration of independence and healing from one of those women. Yes I have heard that I ruined our family and didn’t work hard enough on the marriage because I am so selfish and other straight wives don’t think this is such a big deal. I’ve heard of this fluid sexuality you speak of, this temptation, this sex addiction you have to recover from if only I will stay married to you. I’m also done with trying to figure out if you are gay or bi.
You want to have sex with other men, but somehow, you are not gay. I’m done with trying to convince our relatives, our children, our pastor, my mother that you’re gay.
Finally, through Internet searches and contact with his ex-wife, I got proof together and confronted him.
Editors note: The story of the straight wife married to a gay man is not always about recovering after he comes out.
Some women deal with gay spouses who are closeted and abusive. Yes, I know I have been done with the marriage for a while.
Or a brave straight guy whose evil wife wants revenge and says he’s gay.
Or you’re “struggling” with “Same Sex Attraction” and I am supposed to remain in a celibate marriage with you.